Published inA Parent Is Born·Nov 7How Kids Cheat with TechnologyWe cannot trust grades anymore. — We cannot trust grades anymore. With digital cheating out of control in our schools and colleges, grades have little to do with actual learning. How are kids cheating with technology? The Chat GPT Bomb Our school district prides itself in being one of the best in the country in teaching language arts. Our school works hard to make my children…ChatGPT9 min readChatGPT9 min read
Published inA Parent Is Born·Oct 24How to Block Pornography on Kids’ DevicesThere are 3 main ways to prevent pornography on children’s devices: Hardware Software Child-safe devices Hardware to Block Pornography on Child’s Devices A WiFi router is the gate to all Internet traffic that enters your home. Most modern routers have at least some parental controls — either included or offered as a premium feature via a monthly…Parental Control3 min readParental Control3 min read
Published inILLUMINATION·Sep 26How to Protect Yourself from AI DangersThis was written by a human, with no help from AI. How do you protect yourself from the dangers of AI? It is being built into every digital product in a frantic race to capture market share. Artificial intelligence wants a close relationship with you. Every day it learns more…Ai Danger8 min readAi Danger8 min read
Published inA Parent Is Born·Sep 12Pinwheel Phone Review: Is It Good for Teens?We just switched our 17-year old from the child-safe Gabb phone to a parent-managed Pinwheel smartphone to give him more freedom and functionality. This review is our family’s actual experience with the Pinwheel phone. Although the company sent us a free phone, we still have to pay them a monthly…Safe Phones For Kids8 min readSafe Phones For Kids8 min read
Published inChange Becomes You·May 17How to Use Stoic Philosophy for Digital ResilienceHuman Philosophy vs Artificial Intelligence If technology is affecting your quality of life, you might be looking for an antidote to the poison. There is one, and it is not an app — the solution can be found in philosophy that persisted offline through the centuries. Unlike Big Tech that sacrifices our wellbeing for profitability…Attention Economy15 min readAttention Economy15 min read
Published inA Parent Is Born·May 2Why Buying a Dumb Phone for Your Kid is a Smart IdeaBuying a dumb phone for your child is a smart move. A child-safe phone will let them grow up human, without smartphone addiction and exposure to online harms. Affiliate disclosure: we may promote screen time management solutions consistent with our mission of protecting families from addictive technology, at no additional…Dumbphone10 min readDumbphone10 min read
Published inGeek Culture·Mar 22How to Listen to Spotify Without a PhoneWe want to give our children the gift of music. Music streaming services like Spotify, Amazon Music, Apple Music, and Pandora can provide hours of wholesome entertainment — as well as educational podcasts and audiobooks. Music can be very beneficial, especially for kids with ADHD, by helping them focus. The…Spotify7 min readSpotify7 min read
Published inChange Becomes You·Jan 314 Steps to Digital AddictionHow to use cognitive science to reclaim our freedom. — A friend of mine is a yoga instructor, and she is really frustrated with her students. When she tells her class to take a child’s pose for rest and recovery, they proceed to grab their phones and scroll on their screens instead. Who needs relaxation when you can answer work…Attention Economy13 min readAttention Economy13 min read
Published inGeek Culture·Oct 28, 2022Just Click Accept: Dark Patterns of SuggestionWhile waiting for our flight in one of the big US airports, my kids and I decided to grab a bite to eat. When I pulled out my card to pay, I was shocked to discover that the pin pad asked me for a tip — and even suggested the…Dark Patterns18 min readDark Patterns18 min read
Published inChange Becomes You·Sep 14, 20226 Simple Hacks to Control Cell Phone Distraction“Leave the distracted masses to join a focused few.” — “Leave the distracted masses to join a focused few” Cal Newport, Deep Work. What’s the best way to control smartphone distractions? We intend to work, but instead proceed to scroll through Instagram looking for inspirational quotes about productivity and time management. We look like we are working, but nothing gets done. To do deep meaningful work, we need to perform ONE essential task that is at the…Smartphone Addiction3 min readSmartphone Addiction3 min read